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my boyfriend and I
i have been dating my boyfriend for almost two months. we have known eachother since we were 7 and have been good friends since then. we recently started dating and it feels like we have been dating a lot longer than we have been. he seems to really love me and i know for a fact i love him. to make this short we recently had sex..and im not sure if it was the best decision..nothing has changed for the most part..he seems nicer..but is that because hes "gettin some" or because he genuinely cares? i dont want to be hurt and i am terrified of having someone that i am in love with being in it for sex..he said he would wait forever until i was ready..he said he truely respected me and wanted to wait until i wanted to. but is he just saying that because he wanted me to feel more comfortable with him so i would want to? sorry if this isnt much of a question but i just need someone to let me know if what i have is real or if hes using me?
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It really depends on the guy. Since you've know each other that long.. you should be able to know him a lot better instead of asking random people.
It is true that guys will say anything to make you feel comfortable just to get in your pants. But we don't know your boyfriend.. so we can't make the assumption.
If he really cares about you then he will respect your decision to wait. If you want to know what you have is real.. then don't have sex for a long time. I don't mean days, weeks.. I mean months. It's a true test. If he said he's willing to wait.. then he wouldn't mind the sudden change.
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he sounds like he really cares about you. if you've been friends for 7 years he obviously really likes you (i mean as like a friend)and if hes been friends with you for 7 years i dont think he would want to ruin it now by using you. he said that he respected you and would wait until you wanted to. that also shows that he cares.
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