i like him. and i think he likes me. but he has an odd way o
Question Posted Wednesday January 23 2008, 4:02 pm
im 14/gurl.
So..there is an upper classman i like and he likes me...i think. He flirts with me, tickles me. And I text him, but for some odd reason he will only at times text back for the first 5 minutes and quits. He isnt a good communicator really. And he recently told me there is something wrong. Like I have no idea what it is. He wouldn't tell me. He said it hurts too badly for him to explain. And I asked him if I could help. (This was on aim) and i think he got kinda mad and said YES and off. And he hasnt texted me in days. And I'm worried about him. I learned today that he isnt mad at me, but i am still confused and worried about him. I have no clue what do do. I mean I like him. And I think he likes me to certain limits. He wants to hang out with me but ive been kinda busy lately. I don't know if he even cares.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceforlife answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 6:32 pm: As for his problem, I think you should confront him in person, preferably alone we all know guys get weird around other people, and ask him what is wrong and be persistent, no matter if he gets mad. If he doesn't tell you, maybe there isn't anything wrong and all and he just wants you to feel sorry for him.
As for wanting a relationship, I wouldn't bother with someone who is older, they mostly cheat but if you think you can trust him and he wants a relationship, by all means go ahead.
I hope he confides in you and tells you his 'problem', if there is one. Not to sound mean about anything, I just have a lot of experience with guys who act like that and half of them fake it, half of them don't. Anyways, good luck and I hope I helped. If you need anything else, feel free to go to my column or my site and/or e-mail me. Info is on column.
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