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Getting inside his head...
HI! I'm a freshman in college ....So it's a long story, but I've been dating this guy off and on (the off part is in the beginning of us dating he was dating another girl and eventually chose her, and then came back to me....) we were friends for a while after the whole "cheating on me" thing.. but over break we started talking again. We got in a fight friday night, i drank too much and made out with one of his "fraternity brothers". Long story short, I didn't know he actually cared about me and I've been trying to get him to talk to me ever since. I've texted and called him, and then resorted to long winded, really sincere, facebook messages. Well, last night at like one thirty in the morning he texted me and said, " I just want you to know, i saw you in the gym today. And it sucked. And I don't know what I want to do quite yet about the situation..." I responded and said how sorry i was and he said "yeah well we should probably talk at some point" and i responded with "anytime" he said "I'll let you know." What does this mean?!?!?! I know I should give him time, but how long should it be before he "lets me know"??? AND then today, I received a facebook invitation to a masquerade ball, from him, that his fraternity is hosting. What is going through this guys head?! I really like him a lot and i don't know how to handle this.
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Go to the ball. The best you can do at the moment is to go and see what happens, who knows, maybe something will come out of it and the two of you will talk and sort out the issues between the two of you. Talking and listerning to each other is the key to working this out.
Take also into consideration that he is still trying to figure out what his feelings are, he could be even shocked by the way he felt towards you when you made out with his 'fraternity brother'. Understand that he's having a tough time as well, figuring out as to how to came to have such strong feelings for you.
Wait till the ball and see what happens adn then move on from there.
Good luck with the future,
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it sounds like you two are going to fix this at this masquerade , ask him about the masquerade (something stupid like , what are you wearing LOL or anything you might think) just to make him talk about it ...to see if he wants you to go with you or wtf does that mean...at least now he answered , if he didn't wnated to talk he would have jut ignore the fact that he saw you and you need to talk sometime . :) good luck
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