I have a friend, whom i met last year. We merely say hi or anything.
Just in the hall, we randomly bump into each other and say hi and walk away. For some reason I like him, his charm and good looks.
But i barely know him.
Is this just me wanting to like someone when there noone to like?
or do i ACTUALLY liek him?
what can i do to grow closer to him?
cutesy flirty things.
but thats not too HUGE!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xomegaroni answered Tuesday January 22 2008, 7:47 pm: You'll know once you see him and talk to him more. If he's attractive to you, you'll become interested in him because he's good looking. That doesn't necessarily mean you like him. Try talking to him about small things for example, say more than just "hi". Ask him about school, sports, friends, events, etc. Maybe you guys should try going on group dates at first and then if you feel that you want more, ask him to hang out with you sometime. You know your own feelings. You should be able to tell when you actually like him and his personality. For now, you only know his looks so that's what you're probably attracted to. If you get shy around him, still try talking to him and work up the courage to start more of a conversation. It's probably easier to be friends first and then see if you both want something more than that.
orphans answered Tuesday January 22 2008, 7:45 pm: I'm thinking you actually do like him. People don't have to neccessarily know each other well to like one another.
I'd start with small talk, be a little flirty, tell jokes, smile...etc
I think you'll be able to do the rest from there. If things feel right, ask him out.
orphans answered Tuesday January 22 2008, 3:58 pm: talk to him more, get to know him better. maybe you could go hang out at the mall with his and your friends, have some fun. You dont have to rush anything right away, you can take your time deciding wether or not you guys truely like each other. or if your the kind of girl that likes to go out there and take risks, then ask him out (but i suggest you guys get together first.) maybe you two could go out for a smoothie! ♥
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