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Messy afterwards
Hi... I'm a little concerned about what happens with me after sex... My boyfriend and I are very serious, and I am on a birth control pill. We don't use other sorts of protection anymore, but he regularly cums insides of me. The problem is, as soon as he pulls out, it all leaks out! It totally ruins the romantic atmosphere, not to mention I feel really gross and messy - what should I do? Is this normal?
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Yes, this is normal. The fluid on the bed is a mixture of his cum and your natural lubrication.
There is no solution that'll get rid of it, short of going back to using condoms. Things that can help include keeping a discreet box of tissues by the bed, and wiping yourself after sex.
Your body is doing what bodies do after sex - while it may feel gross, it's totally natural and human. Rather than thinking of it as a pain, look at it more as an inconvient side effect of a great relationship.
I wish you the best.
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