|
go farther
15/f
me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 11 months (excluding the break)
when we hang out we make out like pretty intensely and hes felt me up before, but he doesnt always do that
idk i wanna take it farther somehow but how can i give him the hint without coming right out and saying it?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Sometimes it's important to talk about it first before you initiate something you could regret later. Have a private talk with him the next time you two are alone. BOTH of you should discuss how far the two of you would like to go. Therefore, both of you know exactly where each moment is going, both of you will get satisfaction, and there won't be any "accidents." I understand you can feel silly when talking about that stuff, but you two have been together for a long time. I'm sure both of you are mature enough to discuss these things. After all, if you are too uncomfortable to talk about these things out loud, how can you know you won't be uncomfortable doing them?
Trust me, just talk with him. You'll feel better if you do.
]
i dont know how much farther you want to go but just ask your bf about it and suggest it and say you might want to and just talk about it. or i guess if you arent the types who talk (totally opposite me-my bf and i talk about EVERYTHING but anyway...) when you are making out ask him if he wants to go farther. the only problem is you guys might get caught up in the moment or he could possibly want to stop and think about it thus killing the mood. i strongly suggest you bring it up, ask him, and talk about it. hope all goes well and if you have more questions im always here!! :]
HiChick
]
More Questions: |