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confused and wondering


Question Posted Saturday January 19 2008, 8:15 pm

ok so i like this guy his name is jeremiah
well he has a girlfriend and i hang out with both
of them a lot.Jeremiah even rides my bus but lately ive sorta gotten a crush on jeremiah i know its wrong to like hime b/c he has a girlfriend but he's so sweet , and the last time he had a girlfriend i sorta ruined it because
his old girlfriend was using him bc if she didn't
stay with him her mom wouldn't let her date til she was 18.i messed it up cuz i told him i couldn't help it i wasn't goingto tell him until
i looked at his innoscent face and it made me break down and spill everything. I mean he's like the sweetest guy ive ever known and he doesn't desirve what the girls he's went out this year have done to him.Also me and my friends have been tinking that his current girlfriend the one he's going out with right now is just going out with him because she just wants someone she can call her boyfriend.So my question is what am i supposed to do to not feel this way i mean i don't want to break them up like i did the girlfriend befor . I'm so confused about him . Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!


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mractorman answered Saturday January 19 2008, 9:47 pm:
It's not wrong to like him, it's just normal and you dont have to break them up..if you feel that you're gonna break them up then dont say anything to him. Try talking to her and seeing what else she's about. If the only reason she's wants to have someone to call b/f, then she has a slight problem within herself. She must be in a group of some kind, that she needs to have a b/f to be accepted. She needs someone to validate her being and her being wouldn't be validated w/o a b/f. Then talk to Jeremiah. Now wouldn't it be better to break them up and spare his feelings earlier rather than waiting around while she leads him on and he gets very hurt later?

Cliche Time: If it wasnt meant to be, then it wasnt meant to be.

Hope that helps...

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