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He likes me for me... But...
Ok, so There's my ex :). He used to love me - I know he did, until he fell out of love with me after around 5 months, and broke up with me. i was heartbroken for a very long time, but managed to egt over it until recently when we've started getting back together again in a very secretive way. He doesn't love me - I know that but he cares about me, and he's always there for me whenever i need him. We're together secretly and its a kind of 'not strings attached relationship', and we do stuff - but I know he also like this other girl. She's perfect in every single way to be honest, and I know he really really wants her - she's practically a 15 yr old pornstar! I think he wants her ina more of a sexual way, and she'd win no contest if it were me or her. Yet I think he cares about me alot more and likes my personality alot better. It doesn't help old feelings have stirred and I now feel very attached to him... so please please, I would love some help on this matter, just to express your opinion on my situation, and I'd love some advice on how just... to sort my feelings out, and how I should go about getting rid of this competition.
Thank you!
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well i dont thinnk you need to worry if he only attracted to her for sex. stay by his side. dont give up on be the bigger person and not be his sex buddy that is what will win him again. if he likes you and cares about you he will come back to you. you just gotta give it time. hope this helps.
♥ Steph
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Get rid of the competition by getting rid of your ex.
When you are with someone, in a no-strings-attached arrangement, who doesn't love you, there will ALWAYS be competition and ALWAYS be the risk that he'll leave you for that competition.
Caring about you is probably not going to keep him with you, not for long anyways.
No-strings-attached relationships can work, but only if both people want the same thing. If he just wants your friend ship and some random hook-ups, and you want a relationship, this is going to blow up in your faces sooner rather then later.
Save yourself, your heart and your dignity and end it with him now. It could only get worse from here.
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