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And if it really bothers you(the MSN thing) then its best to tell you thats probably a sign he knows and he doesn't know what to do. Because logic won't give him a good enough answer. So just let it go and continue on okay? Good Luck b^_^
Hey there,
Thank you so much for the advice. What do you mean by 'he knows he doesn't know what to do?'
I'm still in a very cluttered stage, cant think well enough and it's affecting me a lot, as it's been 2 years, and I really wish we were together. I thought it was a crush in the beginning but it's way more deeper than that now, and it's really scaring me as all i can do when i've anytime at all to spare is think of him. Please help!
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Okay, by saying he knows and doesnt know what to do, I mean he knows about your crush, but has no clue what to think of it. Kind of like your daydreaming and your teacher asks you a question and you didnt hear the question, so you dont know what to do. Or in other terms of understanding, a guy tells you hes had a crush on you forever and you dont really like this guy, so you dont know whether to turn him down or accept the news. So you would try to avoid him as much as possible...
But back to your dilemma, if you want him out of your mind for the moments you need him out of mind most, try having a habit of some sort that will keep you busy. Reading, doodling, listening to music, etc. But if you cant get him out of mind, try using him as motivation instead of worry. Not to imagine him as a tool or anything, but more like a set goal. And keep trying the advice I gave last time, so you two stay with each other. Its possible his wall of obliviousness will take a long time to penetrate, and soon time, you might just have to tell how you feel...
You have this pressure and stress building up inside, and your actual problem could be that you won't let it out. Write in a journal or record your thoughts by recording device so you can at least say something. Talk to a friend about it and have them listen as well as give their opinion(if you want them). The more you let out, the less this pressure for a relationship with him will affect you negatively. Just keep an open mind about things and stay as calm as possible as well as have patience, which I know is the hardest thing to come by...
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