Okay so, one of my guy friend's told me a few weeks ago that he likes my friend, lets call her R, and R is extremly pretty, prettier than me... and she doesn't feel the same way about him, but I am beginning to like my guys friend, he'll be called A, and A is well...shorter than me...and I don't want to tell him I like him, because we all (me, R, and A) all have one class together and I don't kow how long this feeling will last...because the marking period is almost over and that means our one period together will be over.
so my questions are:
1. what should I do about A
2. do u think that we have a lil difference in height bother him?
3. Will he get over my friend?
4. How do I let him know that I'm intrested in him without actually telling him and being blunt or way to obvious?
Additional info, added Monday January 14 2008, 6:18 pm: I like my guy friend but he likes R! I'm 15/f by the way if that does anything for you at all.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Psycotheis answered Monday January 14 2008, 6:36 pm: lol, ok, dont worry.(BTW I might jump around your questions so try to bear with) Unless hes dense(oblivious) he should eventually notice shes not interested. But that is only an assumption. He could be stuck with his head in the clouds over your friend while she just ignores. But as long as your sure that your friend isn't interested, the more likely he'll get over.
About the height difference, Ive heard that guys are actually attracted to taller girls. But again, only an assumption. I mean, unless you stand over 3 inches above him, the difference really shouldn't matter. High School is full of height differences(and trust me, I would know -_-) so it shouldn't really weird him out much.
And if you really dont want to make it overly obvious that you want to show him you like him, try hanging out with your friend when hes around. Get into conversations you can actually fit into. Get to know him and let him get to know you. Assuming he doesnt already know all about you that is. So if you do, just hang out with your friend when "A" is around, and dont leave if "A" leaves. It might make others start thinking. Also make sure that "R" isnt there to be a distraction if you can help it. Unless he gets over her very quickly, its likely he'll pay more attention to her. But, dont act like a wall to block her out. Just try to find a way to blend into the picture. [ Psycotheis's advice column | Ask Psycotheis A Question ]
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