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Verbal Will Enough?


Question Posted Sunday January 13 2008, 9:57 pm

I have ocd and always overthink everything and worry too much well ive only ever had oral surgery and i wrote a will sayin if i were to die i wanted all my belongings to go to my boyfriend i dated and signed it and put it in my pocket because i kno from csi someone would have found it im not sure that would have worked but it did give me a peace of mind surgery #2 is on wednesday but this time its more serious im getting cysts removed from my tailbone ouch i kno but this time i wont be able to wear pants due to the area therefore i wont be able to put a written will in my pocket again if i write one anyway and give it to my surgeon or jus tell him my wishes and if i do die will my wishes be carried out? will my boyfriend get my belongings? for many reasons i dont want my parents to have my prized possessions...

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Additional info, added Sunday January 13 2008, 10:54 pm:
I am 17 years old if that helps.

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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Monday January 14 2008, 2:05 am:
If you are under 18, chances are that your belongings will be handled according to your parents' wishes if you die, because your parents are legally responsible for you while you are still a minor. Even if the law in your local jurisdiction allow for a minor to make a will, chances are that you will need your parents to sign it, so if you're trying to make sure your parents don't get your possessions, it probably won't work.

The exact laws vary between different jurisdictions, but even as an adult, for a will to be recognised by the law, it has to be signed in the presence of at least two witnesses who are not listed as beneficiaries on the will.

Sorry to tell you bad news. Please don't worry too much. You're still young. You'll recover.

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theymos answered Monday January 14 2008, 1:46 am:
A will is not officially binding unless you are over 18 and the will has been witnessed by two disinterested parties.

If you die in surgery, your possessions will go to your parents. There is nothing you can do about it until you are 18. I suggest you leave them a note, and hope that they follow your wishes.

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