ok well i was just figured for the first time and it hurt soo bad he did it about 3 times and they only lasted about 20 seconds because it hurt.
is that normal? ive never like masturbated or anything but i was thinking maybe i should so it doesnt hurt next weekend if he does it again.
solidadvice4teens answered Sunday January 13 2008, 7:44 pm: If it hurts like a son of a bitch then he's doing it wrong! Like most guys his age he has probably never seen or touched female genitals before before. it's your job to tell him what hurts and tell him to stop.
Unfortunately you can't tell him what feels good versus bad because you haven't ever touched that area of your body either. It may be a good idea to try learning so that you can convey to a partner what feels right sexually and know what his fingering is supposed to feel like versus this. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
xcheerbabex108 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 7:27 pm: It's very normal.
It was the same for me.
Especially if you're still a virgin, it might hurt, bleed, or even be sore.
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