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Hi again


Question Posted Saturday January 12 2008, 2:26 pm

Hii sorry to bother you.
I just needed to know something.
You said anxiety and I agree but even now my stomach is in knots.
As you can tell these situations don't happen to me, well the guy problems.
They just don't.
I like him and it's taken a while but I know I do.
It's just I'm so nervous it's all a joke. Even if it's not, I can't help but think we won't go out or something and it'll be awkward. Or even that we do go ot but break up and it's awkward.
So either way it'll probably be awkward.
I don't know I just am so nervous and I can't calm down.


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orphans answered Saturday January 12 2008, 2:39 pm:
It's okay, you're not bothering me, this is what I'm here for, helping people :] Okay, so, I bet you have this feeling in your stomach like you are on a roller coaster that is about to go down on one of the biggest drops you have ever been on in your life, right? Well, I know this feeling all too well, because some boys just have htat effect on me and it seems that TJ has that effect on you as well. I know that your mind can only think about this and no matter what you do, your still jumpy and nervous, thinking about what he will say on Monday, replaying what you said to Samantha, maybe even wishing you never said it at all, but give yourself a break. You are a phenominal girl with a wonderful personality and you probably have a lot ot offer some lucky guy. Right? Well, I'm 110% sure that this isn't a joke and 200% sure that if it was a joke, Samantha wouldn't have told you that TJ likes you, because it just wouldn't happen. And I'm really positive that you guys will go out, I mean, the liking one another is mutual, it goes both ways, so this most liekly means that you guys will be going out. I mean, TJ was bold enough to give you a POEM, now that takes some guts and his time, because he spent that time making you a lovely poem that I'm sure you have read over and over again :] [I would have too hehe] And it won't be awkward because what should have been awkward was that whole poem thing and it wasn't, so the only thing that seems a bit awkward is his sister telling you all these things haha, but just look at how far you have come! You are doing a great job and maybe you should just watch some TV, or read that poem again just to ease your mind. Monday will come soon enough and I'm sure you'll like the outcome :]
Everything is gonna be fine, trust me. And you can ask me anything at anytime, I'll make sure your question is answered :]

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