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....very very confused...
ok, my bofeiend and i had this HUGE figh i broke up with him...to to make a long story short he called me a whore and went PSYCHO! so lately..ive been feeling really different towards him. so theres this other guy named dave and hes the sweetest guy ever..and i REALLY like him..but i don't know if he likes me.. yesterday on the bus..he was like touching my leg the whole way home and it was like his hand was just resting on my leg! and when i got back together with my boyfriend...he seemed mad...but he says its because my boyfriend doesnt deserve me.. i dont know what to do..everyone says i should break up with my boyfriend..because he's psycho..but i do love him..but im scared that hes gonna go psycho if i break up with him... and i had no idea that he was like this...until i broke up with him the other day...and its been 9 months..so im pretty deep into the relationship...please help.shouold i date dave who i have a HUGE amount of feelings for or my bf, who when he has his good days is better than dave but when he has his down days...is the biggest A**hole EVER and he's psycho..?? please just give me ADVICE do not tell me how bad of a person i am because i like someone else when im dating somoeone..i know i am already..
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A few months ago I got out of a relationship like that. Our relationship had been on and off for a year. If you really think he is really bad and he will end up hurting you on a bad day, you don't need to be with him. My ex was like that and sometimes I was scared of him. What happened was I caught him flirting with another girl and ended it right then and there. After that, I ignored his every call to try and get me back, he told me how bad he felt, how much he missed me, but I could never be with him again. Break up with him and tell him that when he can calm down and get his life straight, you might have another chance. But don't leave him hanging. If you found someone else you think would be way better than the other guy, then I say take that opportunity, and drop the one who you know is not the one for you.
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Don't think you are a bad person, because you aren't.
Your boyfriend's psycho behavior by far outweighs his good days. Even if he is Prince Charming on his good days, he is still an psycho a-hole underneath the surface.
I mean, good grief, the guy called you a whore and Lord only knows what else.
Dave is right. You DO deserve better than that. MUCH better. Even if Dave isn't the better guy you deserve, someone out there is.
My suggestion is you should break up with this boyfriend, give yourself some recuperation time, then go out with Dave, or someone else who will treat you with respect at all times.
Don't ever stay with a guy because you are scared of his reaction if you break up. That fear is all the more reason to get the hell away from him.
Fear is a lever abusers use to keep their victims right where they want them.
If you are afraid of him, DO involve trusted adults in the situation, like your parents. They will protect you from him.
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