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Question Posted Monday January 7 2008, 6:57 pm

hello. he told me that he hates me. he told me he is tired of the "sh*t" But I dont understand what he is talking about because I do not talk to anyone about him I have been keeping to myself so that there isnt any problems caused. I havent spoke to him in over a week. the last time we did talk he was so nice and he was the one who was talking to me and then all of a sudden he just told me he does not love me, does not ever want to be my friend again and he wants to forget about me.
Its messed up because he is acting like he is the victim when I have done nothing wrong:S


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HectorJr answered Monday January 7 2008, 7:08 pm:
That is really immature of him to act like the victim here. Ask him what he means by he is tired of the things going on and why it is he hates you. It sounds irrational for him to just blow the whistle on everything like that for no reason at all. He hates you? That would answer your question as to why he doesn't want to speak to you or be your friend. But still, why does he hate you? It doesn't sound like you've done anything to deserve it.

Confront him about it and ask him why he hates you and what you did to deserve this. If he doesn't give you real reasons then just move on. Its immature of him to do that after three years of a relationship. If even that was too much for him then obviously he couldn't handle anything more. Besides, if you did do something that upset him or made things tense between the two of you, then he still shouldn't have called everything off and said he hates you. If he couldn't handle you at your worst then he certainly doesn't deserve you at your best. Give it another shot and if it doesn't work, then its his loss. Hope that helped.

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