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internet love life has got me. i'm stuck
16/f. I hate this.
soo...a couple of years back, i got myself a boyfriend online..(VERY stupid idea) got REALLY attatched to him..and started crying over him and stuff (things you shouldn't do with people online) and I didnt realize it was bad..I was in "love" o.O..so, as you can imagine, when he broke up with me..i was in tears. he was 18 after all. so cool. oh yes, older guys. okay now..when i was 15, i met another guy. through connections with my 'ex' ...mutual friends. and he fell in 'love' with me. by that time, i was more aware of the dangers of the internet and didnt bother to tell him that i even liked him. because i didnt. i dont even know what the guy looks like..i dont wanna look at his pictures. lmao. but anyway, his burning love for me grew. and he's 18 as well. Then, his 22 year old girl-friend from the internet.. (pathetic, i know) who is at home all day playing video games and chatting with people..started talking bad about me...when she doesnt even know me. she claims that the 18 year old guy REALLY LIKED her...and that I'm taking him away from her. during this time, the guy insisted that he likes me so much more. and he kept on being mean to that 22 year old. so I'm like wtf? I don't know WHAT to do. cause I sure as hell don't want to stick around in this retarded love fest. I understand she may not have any friends..but falling for an 18 year old she's never met and then being all jealous about it...because he likes me? ..that's messed up. i'm so lost and confused. I would like to get out of this situation.I don't know how though. I'm sick of it. Sick of it all..
i really appreciate if you read this. any point of views would be appreciated. =)
the internet love triangle. haha
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Block him. Easy as that.
No, really.
Block all of your screen names (if you have multiple) on MSN, so he can't contact you. If he knows your e-mail, block that. Block any contacts you have.
If you block him out of your internet life entirely and there's no way for him to make connections with you, then how can he be in your real life?
Don't feel guilty-- this guy is a real retard for liking someone he doesn't even know. I know that you used to be like that, but you were much, much younger, and you grew up and got wise. Him, on the other hand... I don't know. Just don't feel guilty.
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The internet is a place where predators prey, people make themselves seem better then they really are, and people feel more important. Ok, i'm sorry to say this, but for all you know, these could be 2 thirty year old guys playing a mean trick on you. On the internet, almost nothing is ever what it seems. It's just reality. I suggest you tell this dude if you don't like him. Why be stuck inside the triangle when you could be on the outside, being happier and less confused? If you don't like him, tell him.
Hope I helped,
-Jessica- :)
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