17/f
soo keep in mind this ALWAYS happens to me...
theres this boy, and when i first met him he was cool and stuff and i was with a bunch of friends and we were all crammed in the car. so i was in the back with 3 boys and he was one of them. he tried putting his arm around me and i took it off,and he was like awww rejected that hurts! and i heard he thought i was really cute. well now he's been going out with this girl since october and they say they are in "love" but i know they arent, they fight all the time and me and my friend had a big talk with him saying do you realize all this, you arent in a good relationship and he was like oh my god i thought i was the only one. but hes like i'll talk to her about it. i kinda have a crush on him, so i want him to break up with her cuz i dont like her at all, and that sounds mean but i know they're not gonna! its sucks..what do you think i should do about him? and im not the type to express my feelings ya knoww..so ya
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AngelofMercy answered Monday December 31 2007, 1:57 pm: The other advice is true, you didn't want him until you couldn't have him. Now, this may be a jealousy thing or a competition thing. You may feel rejected because he didn't continue to pursue you and went for someone else instead. I am not trying to be mean, but maybe you are seeing things in his relationship because you want it to be true. I think backing off would be a good idea, if he truly has feelings for you, then you could always give it a try after he has split with the other girl. I have always said, what you would do in his/her position? This, is usually a good indication to what is right and wrong. If you wouldn't want someone to take him away from you, then it's not fair to do the same to someone else. Does that make sense? [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
Nhlayi answered Monday December 31 2007, 10:42 am: I also do not mean to be mean but i think you don't know what you want ,first you didn't want him but now since he has another girlfriend you want him ,whats up with that [ Nhlayi's advice column | Ask Nhlayi A Question ]
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