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I'm not sooo sure...((warning:This is a long Question!!!))
((14/F))
Ok I've had something bugging me lately.I have a good friend he's creepy and odd but he's a very cool person to hang out with.Anyways,I went to a party on the day we got out for school for christmas break.Well, when I went to the party I talked to him at times when I suddenly got or just for fun and when I went inside my friends house,um, lets call her Holly.He went inside too after a few minutes I kept getting chips cause I was hungrey and he kept telling me that I was going to get fat and that my crush won't like me anymore if I got fat and all that crap.
Well,he kept bugging me about and would'ent shut up.Then a little later on I was outside sitting next to some friends he said he was going to hug me to death or my other friend well he kept trying to hug me than my other friend and he would'ent stop until he would hug me and I would'ent let him((I'm so mean)) when I sat up I suddenly forgot about him then I heard him say,'Now I can get you!' so I ranaway from him and sat next to a friend,uh,Josh who decided to protect me.
But, he kept bugging me about my crush and him trying to hug me (( he found a seat that was just across from me.I then heard my other two friends,Kyle and Jake laughing.So i turned my head around to know what they were laughing about.When Kyle saw me he said,'Hey ((my name)) I think Matt likes you.'I just glared at him and turned my attention somewhere else.
Ever since I've left that party it's been somewhat been bugging me.
1:Cause if he likes me I might be hurting his feelings cause he knows I like someone already for a long time.
2:I just hope he dosent like me and be that way and not be an akward friendship.
I've been thinking how he acts around me and what I've noticed is that he always bugs me and hardly anyone else.
Now I have an aunt who's been going out with this guy for about 2 years already.My aunts Bf has a son my age whos name i will call,Alan.Alan is a popular boy unlike me who is not popular.
Alan acts exactly just like my friend Matt.He always gets me mad and teases me even when I try acting nice to him.I'm always Alans target,other than it being my lil sis or cousin.He treats them waaayyy more nicely than what he treats me.But i remember once he did a very sweet thing,he gave gave a browine to my sister,broke it into half,and told her to give me the other piece.Thats the only sweet thing I remember him doing.
Though I doubt he likes cause he has a girlfriend and i don't know why I think he likes me,but maybe it's just cause he acts like matt...Besides he's popular I'm not,so it makes sense for him not to like me...Also,we never get along.And I'm fine with that.^^
Anyways both boys act like little brats when I'm around them.Though I think it's just them being them but this was just bugging me at the end of my mind so I just need to know if they like me and I really hope they don't.Also,once with Alan both me and him were alone in my room((he was using the computer))he kept asking questions about me while talking to his girlfriend.Some questions were mean while the others were quite personal and things that he did not need to know...
soooo.....what's your opinon???((so sorry of this is soooo long!!! TT__TT I apologize!))
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When two people do the same thing, then it tends to mean that they know that it annoys you and they want to see you get taunted and want to make you think that you're defensiveless.
The way to come back from this, is to show that you're not weak and that what they're doing isn't annoying you. They should find that what they're doing is becoming boring. Tell them things like "My boyfriend loves me no matter how i look" or "When will you hit puberty? You still seem to have the mind of a 5 year old!"or "What does it matter to you how i look?" You get the point? Don't back down.
Good luck with the future,
triquetra
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Alan: His motives for 'picking' on you are completely, normal, seeing he's around you often, it's something that usually happens, seemingly more often with gender(male), being the fact he's part of your family, it seems more that he's just having fun, the 'personal' questions however, could be simply curious(not as rare as you may think, for a brother and sister to have such conversations/questions)
Matt: He may be particularly found of you, could like you, or could simply enjoy picking on you.. often people find someone who they think to be fun to pick on. Could also mean he likes you, though if he isn't someone you've talked to often, then that's prolly not the case.
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