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happpiness
what happens when your happiness comes from one guy yet its not the other way around?
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Well, it means that you may have to move on. YOu see we can't control how other people feel. We can only control our own feelings. And this happens more often than you think. To guys and girls. But that is what "dating" is all about, it is for people to find each other, learn about each other and decide if the BOTH want to be in a committed relationship. Sometimes one person likes the other, more than the other likes them back. And it can happen at any time in your life. Not just when you are young. Problem is, relationships are BEST when both people feel the same. It is no fun being in love with someone that does not love you back. And you are really shrinking your own life by not looking at other possibilities, or by refusing to love anyone else. Statements like" But I only love him, and I only want him", will keep you alone and lonely. It is immature to think that you could never feel the same about anyone else. Because all of us have been in love more than once. And each time it happens, we are surprised by how much we care about the new love, because we were SO SURE we would never love anyone else as much as we loved the old love (Hope this is clear!!!)
Bottom line, life is too short to spend loving someone who doesn't love you back, or doesn't find happiness being with you. And happiness, is what it is all about. Having that relationship where both of you are extremely happy to be with each other is so wonderful. Don't close yourself off from it. It will happen. It is too sad to waste precious time and energy loving someone who doesn't love you back.
Keep looking is my advice.
Michele
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well you could find another guy my best friend just said sorry i cant hang with you anymore cause i have a girlfriend i wasnt even into him that way we were best friend and he just did that so try and find another guy i found my best friend at camp she is so nice so it dosnt have to be a boy try and find a girl that is just the same
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