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what to do
There's this guy, James. I've known him for a really long time, and this summer we grew really close. (He's twenty and I'm fifteen, by the way.) He was like a brother to me. He gave me his cell number, and I called him once but it was really awkward. He said he'd call me sometime(this was at the very end of August.) He didn't. I know it's been a really long time, but should I call him again, or not? I miss him so, so much, like I don't go a day without thinking about him. I'm almost positive that he does care about me, I mean he told me he loved me and I was definitely his favorite person out of everyone who was at the camp we're at. Like, he told everyone.
What should I do? I can't can't can't forget about him, so don't tell me that. But what should I do?
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You *should* probably take a deep breath, and it him go.
You don't need to forget him. He is part of your summer camp memory, so hold on to that. HOWEVER he was probably uncomfortable about the appropriateness of your relationship and how it might affect his job. He might now be dating someone, or be extremely busy. Whatever is happening, it's safe to say he isn’t that interested in you that way.
If you just want to reconnect, sure, call him and wish him a Merry Christmas, but if you are hoping for more, don’t bother. It would be torturing yourself for no good reason.
The hardest people to ‘get over’ are the ones we never really get together with, because they live on only in our fantasies and those fantasies can last a damn long time. Just take a deep breath and let it go.
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lol you should call him on a random day and when hes like "hello" you should be like "James? oh sorry i dialed the wrong number..." and then continue from there saying like how've you been? and stuff
that would be so unobvious
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Try sending a sms saying hey how are ya? See what and if he replies just be careful as he is older than you.
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