Question Posted Thursday December 20 2007, 1:37 pm
So i really like this guy, lets call him Sam. We have been best friends for 3 years and he is amazing. We both found out we hav liked eachother a ton and both got super desperate for each other. We kissed once and then we decided we had to be gf/bf. So we have been dating for almost 2 months now and the first 2 weeks were great. He wanted to hold my hand and put his arm around me and asked me out on the weekends. But now he acts as if i am nothing to him, it doesnt bother him when he doesnt say goodbye at the end of the day, he doesnt im me, doesnt ask me to hang out on the weekends and avoids my invitations. ive told him to break up with me if he doesnt like me but he continues to like me he says, and all of his friends tell me how much he talks about me. i dont know what to do because i dont want to break up with him i cant i love him but how can i get him to acknowledge me i dont want to be a super naggy girlfriend. i dont want him to dump me but id rather he did than play these games with me. i think about him all the time but i dont think he ever thinks of me becuz he never tells me im pretty or he likes me or anything. u may think he is just being shy but he is really not a shy guy and he wasnt for the first couple weeks. im getting super confused and i need advice is it a hopeless cause or should i fight for him?
khadiya answered Friday December 21 2007, 2:56 am: Stop running behind him Let him come to you. Dont call as much, try to let him involve himself with you. When he think something is wrong that will get his attention. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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