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Is he cheating, or am I thinking too much...what can I do?
I'm 20 and female, and this is my first relationship with a guy. We've been good friends since high school and we've been going out for about four months or so and we've always enjoyed being together and being there for each other regardless. He always found time to call me while he's at work and I understood that the both of us would be busy (him being at work and me being in college). But just recently for over a week and a half, he stopped calling and iming me. I got worried and tried to call him back with no luck, and then one of his friends told me that my boyfriend had been hanging out with his ex-coworker. My boyfriend finally called me back at one point and said he needed to speak to me in person soon. I'm scared and I don't know what to do. I love him dearly, but now I can't stop crying, what if he ended up cheating on me? He wanted this to work out between us and even promised not to hurt me or take advantage of me, but what now? I'm afraid of what he might say to me when we see each other, I want this to work out too. Please help.
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Well, the only way to work it out is to wait for him to come talk to you, see what's going on, if there is a problem then put your heads together to try and solve it.
Since you want it to work out, if he cheated the only thing you can do is try to get over it. Good luck with that- it isn't easy to do at all.
If he comes bearing some sort of bad news, then you need to take the time to think it over and see if it is something that can be left in the past, or if it something you can't let go.
If you can't let it go, then it is only fair to both of you to move on with your life.
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