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another pathetic love story...haha (sry about that!)
okay, well im a girl and im 17.
there's a guy that i talk to quite a bit alone but only after school.We don't have any classes together.(his friend's gf is my close friend, just so you kno)so i wanna find out if he is interested in me @ all and was thinking about askin her bf if he would ever hang out with me, or like just ask him straight up if he'd wanna hang out with me? im not really sure. he's not the most outgoing guy so idk if he'd feel awkward. i dont like him all that much but i would still like to find out ya kno?
like, wat should i do to find out??
wow, i feel kinda stupid asking for internet advice! haha, o well, it seemed cool so y not? at least it mite help...nvr kno. thanks!! :)
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Haha I totally understand.
It's hard to find out of a guy is interested, expecually if he's the quiet type. If he is interested, however, and you ask him to hang out, he could get his hopes up, and like you said, you don't like him that way. I guess the only way to find out without being completely obvious that you want to know is have you friend do some undercover work. Don't have her ask straight up, but I guess she can be telling a story that involves you, and she can be like "Yeah ____ is really great, what do you think?" Something suttle like that. You don't want it to be too pushy that it would scare him away, expecually if you ever do want to get together with him. Keep talking to him, however, and if you do ask him to hang out, do it because you enjoy his company, but don't lead him on. Who knows, you might find a sudden interest in him. Keep it sneaky and suttle.
Boys are way too complicated to read, and send out so many mixed signals girls will never understand unless they are told straight up. Just go with the flow of things.
Good luck :]
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