ok well ive always thought of myself as straight but theres this girl weve been friends since 6th grade now in in 9th.!>. and she just cam out and told people that she was bi sexual.! but the thing is that recently ive benn wanting her attention and its kind of like a girl crush.!>. and she is the only girl so far that ive thought of this way.! please help me.! im soo confused.!> i mean i think of her as more as a friend but i dontknow i just need some advice.!>
Steve83 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 11:20 am: Trust me it's normal. I had an ex girlfriend, who i'm still good friends with, tell me before that she thought she was bi because she had thoughts about other girls. Turns out it was just curiosity. She soon lost the feelings, but she was confused while she had them. The only thing I can say is to talk to your friend about your feelings. Perhaps she could help you figure out if your feelings are true, or just came about out of curiosity. [ Steve83's advice column | Ask Steve83 A Question ]
sally91 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 5:54 am: hey this is perfectly normal.. we all feel attracted to someone we feel comfortable around and can be ourself with, someone we trust and are close too.
so just relax its completly normal to be confused about your feeling towards other people.
just because you have this attraction with this one girl doesnt mean that your bi because you may never feel like this for another girl again but then again you might be bi... that is something you have to work out for yourself cos your the only one that can aswer that.
but hey if you have feelings for her go for it.. you can only go with them or ignore them. (i cant really tell you wat you should do tho) hope i helped xx sal [ sally91's advice column | Ask sally91 A Question ]
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