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 omg help me! argh! my mum thought i was a virgin... until now! 
i came into my room today and my mum was just leaving it... holding a folded up carrier bag and she scouled at me and it was almost a dissapointed look! 
i panicked when i realised the bag and when she left i dashed to the place that the bag i put a used condom in after i'd had sex with my bf earlier! it was gone! aargh! 
i'm 16, f... not been a virgin for a long time but omg my mum has so just found out and i haven't even seen her since that moment! what shall i do!!?!?! 
she is obviously pissed off and stuff! 
and what do i tell her? 
do i tell her everything? 
that i've had 6 sexual partners, sucked dick, taken it analy, fucked a guy while giving another head (yes, i am ashamed of that) 
what do i do!?!?!?!?!
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  I don't think all those descriptions were necessary! Anyway; 
If I were you, I'd just leave it. You're 16 and around that age, people can start to engage in sexual activity. If it makes you feel better, you can bring it up, but I reckon she would have said something by now. 
It's natural for her to be disappointed.. I doubt any mother likes to know what their daughter gets up to.. but on the other hand, she's probably relieved you are using protection, so that's good in a way. 
You don't have to tell her what you've done and who with.. but if she brings it up in conversation, just reassure her you're being safe etc.  ]
  
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