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I am at fault??
This past monday, my friend came over with her sister who is out of town for dinner. Well...she was with her sister on my computer talking and catching up wit her sister on things...it didn;t bother me, because i was cooking dinner and really didn't know if i could pulled a chair and just joined, thought it would be rude in some crazy sense...dinner was kool till she kept asking me if everything was okay and i told her yes. but i also told her if she meant why i was not around her or talking much because she was with her sister...she took it the wrong way and just left my house, pissed of..am i fault despite wat i did was not really wrong...plus we have a strong and messed up frienship(we told each other our strong feelings for each other and even told each other we love each other but scared to move on)wat to do????
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Well, the fact of the matter is that you said something in a way she took offense. Really, you came off as sounding like you have some sort of problem with her talking to her sister, even though that isn't how you meant to sound.
Your best bet is to go see her, apologize for how you sounded, and explain to her what you meant by that comment. Assure her you never meant to say something to make her angry- you just didn't say what you felt in the right manner.
The best way to talk to her about this is face to face, so she knows that you are sincere.
Next time, join in the conversation with her and her sister. They came over to your house to see you, even as they tried to catch up with one another.
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just try and call her..if she doesn't answer leave her a message trying to explain what you ment. tell her your side of the story. even try sending her an email. and if you really want to get back into her good graces, show up at her house with roses, and explain. no girl can resist roses.
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