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'friendship"
so, there was this boy i saw in 06, at a show, and we had this.. i dont know, unspoken understanding of each other. it was like, mutual, smiling, laughing, not very much talking, he left before the show ended (it was in a small coffee shop), I never thought I'd see him again. speed up 07, i saw him the other day, talked to him even, he didnt remember me. But i wouldnt expect him to... haha, but now I know where he works. I dont even know if he has a girlfriend, but how do I casually like.. I want to hang out with him or something.. ahhh.
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hey... just causually go to his work and pretend your not there to see him, and when you see him just say "i didnt know you worked here... how are you...." or " i forgot you worked here... how have you been...." or something like that... then you should chat a while and then just before you say goodbye to him just say "we should hang out sometime ay..." and say when.where. i hope that helps good luck xxx sally :)
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i think that you're describing my life. okay, here's what you should do: get a few of your friends together and casually go to the place where he works. in front of him, mention something about how you're hanging out somewhere that night, and does he want to come or invite some friends to come with him? okay, once he says yes (he has no reason, at all, whatsoever, to say no, trust me... well, if he does, then suggest another time and give him your number), say, "ok, well, here's my cell number, see you there." and then, if he gets the hint, he will give you his number. i've been in a situation like this before, and you definitely need to pursue a friendship with him if you had that connection. do you know his first name only, or his last name too? you can look him up on facebook or myspace and see if it says single or not. or you could request to be his friend on facebook or myspace, but i think it's better to just talk to him in person. ahh, i just had a better idea come to mind. the next time there's a show at that coffee shop, drop by where he works and ask if he wants to come with. good luck!
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I would go over to his work and chat with him a little, mnake some small talk and have some laughs. Before you leave, slip him a piece of paper with your number on it. If there is a concert or show around invite him along. Good luck!
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Maybe just pop in his work one day and try and say hello. If he works in a restaurant or store, make it seem as if you're there for the same reasons as any other customer. Try and talk to him, and if things go well, ask if he'd like to spend time with you.
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