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confused virgin 16/f
I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and when I go back home I will probably have sex with him (I am a virgin he is not). From what he has told me he is into oral sex and anal sex is his favourite. However I am a bit scared as I don’t know if it will hurt much. I am also very wet down there because of discharge and I don’t know if he would mind this (that’s why I didn’t let him finger me when we were together. Also I’ve never had an orgasm and I’m wondering what exactly happens when you do. He wants to give me head but wouldn’t it feel strange (I am embarrassed to have him between my legs)? And last I don’t know how to go about giving him a blowjob, I’ve seen it on TV but I haven’t got a clue for how long I should do it or how to start or what guys like.
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I have a few things to say. First, the wetness you describe is totally natural. If he that bothers him, he'll never have sex. Ever.
Second, anal sex will almost definitely be at least a little painful, especially in the beginning. And if it starts to really hurt, stop immediately. You could seriously injure yourself.
And the oral thing, I would have no idea what he would like and I'd rather not try to guess. Everyone is different, and I'd feel kind of uncomfortable trying to describe what I might like so you'd have an idea.
As for the orgasm part, I couldn't describe what it would feel like for you. I'm a guy, so I wouldn't know. But, some females actually have this reaction called "female ejaculation". I won't go into detail on that part.
So, just a piece of advice, don't forget the condom. Good luck.
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