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shyness getting the best of me
Well i get really shy around guys i like and i'm wondering if there are any ways i could try and become less shy because when i talk to a guy i like i find that i have nothing to say so it's awkward. I really want to be less shy...but another reason i dont get very close to guys is because i am 19 and i have never kissed a guy so i feel weird getting close to someone because i am scared to kiss them because i am scared i am going to mess it up. any ideas of what i can do to get over my shyness????
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I'm about your age and have never kissed a girl. I've felt your pain. But don't focus on us being a guy, just talk about girl stuff... We'll pick up on it sooner or later. I've talked about cars with girls that were genuinely interested. From a guy's perspective, I said I bought a new car to one girl I met and she promptly wanted to show me her Dodge Durango R/T, finding out that I liked cars. We can be the same way - forget your talking to a guy for a minute and talk like you normally would to another girl, and don't just look at us as possible kisses. Just... talk. We'll talk back. And if nothing else we'll just smile and get the conversation rolling as a girl stutters and stammers.
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You and I both. Hehe. I think it's that we are afraid of letting guys into our lives? No idea. Just next time you see a guy, forget that he is a guy. Just treat him like you treat your other friends. After all, he is a normal human being. And about never kissing a guy, its perfectly normal. I know lots of girls who have never kissed a boy. Although I'm only 16, I have also never kissed a boy. But you cannot look for a boyfriend. Don't seem desperate because that can be very unattractive. Good luck, let me know how it goes. :D
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