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old friends.
hey erinn.
ok so theres this girl that i used to be best friends with, but we always got in fights. im not saying i didnt do anything, but she tells everyone completely different storys, like she was just sittig there and i randomly came up to her and was started going off on her, ad beleieve me, this was NOT the true story. i would say we both eqyally started the fightss. and whenever anything bad happens to her, even thoutgh we arent friends, she blames it on me, ad its gettig old. plus she would always say i wanted to be like her and i wa jealous, but i seously wanted to be nothing like her ad i was sometimes embarrased by her..but she thinks differently i guess. and she still cant get over talkig bad about me and just hating me, and i dont know what to do anymore. please helpp.
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okay, confront her about this.
but say it nicely, the meaner or snottier you say it, will just make things worse. tell her that you dont appreciate her doing stuff like that. and if she doesnt listen to you, it may come down to telling the counsler. yeah, you will be a "tattle tale" and everything, and no one likes to be like that, but she made the situation THAT BAD.
just tell her that she needs to stop, and that if she stops then everything will be alot easier than just making the fight worse than what it already is.
thnks, need more help.. come back.
erin.
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