ok I have been talking to a guy for a month now. We talk on the phone or text everyday and every weekend he is usually with me. Technically we arent dating but we are. A few weeks ago we was riding around and he was holding my hand he told me that means something if he was doing that. When I leave when I am with him we always hug and kiss each other. He sometimes get in these moods and I call or he says I will call you back in 5 mins...he fianlly calls back 3 hours later. Is that normal for a guy? And do you see us being a couple with time? I mean he has kissed and cuddled on me in front of his friends and one time on the way to his friends house he was on the phone with him and said he had his girl with him. And he also said he needs a picture of me to put in his car. So whats his deal?
triquetra answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 8:33 am: If he's calling you his girlfriend, then i shouldn't worry the relationship but if you still have doubts, go and ask him whether this is just for show or whether it is for real. Because if it is real, ask him why he doesn't call back when he says he will in the specified time.
If it is just to show off, then there will be a lot of heart break, if he needs a picture of you in his car then there could be two reason for it:
a) It could be to show off to his friends.
b) It that he can look and think of you in the car.
Plus, it is abosolutly cruel for him to be acting this out and you should point that out to him so he knows how you feel about this. You want a serious relationship whilst he could want it just to show off.
darrensgrl answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 1:16 am: wow you must be hella fine for a guy to do that wen your not together.anyways your question. there many explainations for what he doing. 1. tryn to get some ass 2. wants to ask you out but dont kno how. 3. he wants to be Friends wit benifits aka FUCK BUDDY. 4. He doin it to feel lovd. this is very normal for guys. In time i could see you guys together. To find out wats goin talk to him bout the four things above. Hope this helps! <3 17/F [ darrensgrl's advice column | Ask darrensgrl A Question ]
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