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Boyfriend Troubles
Ok so here's the deal. I recently started dating this guy named "Jason". I really like "Jason" and he is sweet and kind and funny, but i having some problems with it. "Jason" is a little bit bigger than most of the guys i date. I mean we have kissed and everything and he is a really good kisser but I can't picture me and him having sex. It that normal? Will it go away as we get futher along in the relationship?
Also another BIG problem i have is my friend "Mary". Well "Mary" and "Jason" used to go out. and she says she is still in love with him. But "Jason" said that they were only together for 3 days. Ok this part may confuse you so try to keep up! I'm bisexual and i'm engaged to a girl named "Sara". "Sara" is "Mary's" older sister. and i'm also dating "Jason". Before you say i'm cheating, i'm not. But "Jason" and "Sara" know other each other. But i really don't want to hurt "Mary" and then me and "Sara" get in a fight about it. So Basically my questions are the ones above and; Should i break up with "Jason" even though i really like him just so "Mary" won't get hurt. Or is she over reacting? I don't want to hurt anyone! but i really like him.
BTW "Jason" is 18;"Sara" is 17; i'm 16 1/2/f, and "Mary" is 15.
P.S. Please no lectures on being engaged at 16 because I don't want to hear it.
Please help me. Thanks alot. ~~HBA~~
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Ok well i think that if you really care about your friend then you should break up with him.
Also if you engaged with your bestfriends sister I think thats enough for you friend to have to handle.
So if I was you id stay with your girlfriend and break up with your boyfriend.
You never know you might just be happier with just her.
I hope I helped let me knoww
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Okay, this is kind of confusing. Are you and Jason and Sara all going to get married? Is he like a polygnamist? Nevermind, it's none of my business. So first of all, Mary should try and get over Jason. Does she know that you are dating Jason? You have to tell her if she doesn't. It's only fair that everyone know the facts in a mess like this. And does Sara know that you're dating Jason? You have to tell her that too if she doesn't. It might be a tad hard, but the first step to working this out is everyone knowing what's going one. If Jason only dated Mary for like 3 days, then by all means, just move on. Keep dating Jason if you love him, because Mary just needs to get over it.
I suggest that you all sit together in a room all at once, explain this all to them, and then one-by-one everyone says what they would like to happen. I know that sounds kind of dumb and there might be some tears shed, but I really think that's the only way that everyone can reach a compromise together that everyone can live with.
Hope that helps!
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