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My bf and i are 15 and weve been together for almost 7 months and recently i started giving him handjobs and it seems to take awhile for his penis to get hard is that normal? do some guys have trouble getting erections? (link)
yes some guys do,
so its normal.
mainly when they first start getting handjobs/blowjobs.
it will take less time soon
hope i helped.
15/f


this guy and i really like eachother...and recently hes been asking me if i want to have oral. i dont know what to say to him, coz i dont want him to stop liking me coz i dont want to...
help, please!
thanks
15/f (link)
well if you dont wanna do it you dont have to he shouldnt stop liking you cuz you dont want to.
just tell him that you dont really want to or say ou think its gross he should understand where your comming from.
hope i help!
15/f


14/f

it all started a year ago when my mom found out i lost my virginity two weeks after it happened. everything was a mess and i became the disgrace of the family in her eyes. for a while i wasn't sure what to do i mean she was putting me down constantly by telling me what a slut and a whore i was for one incident i regreted because the only reason i did it was because i though he really cared and i was so stupid to believe it. i never spoke to him again after thet. i couldn't take it and i finally burted out "well since you're always right and obviously i'm a whore i'll prove you right!" i slept with 3 guys after that and cared about each one but only one cared back. my mom thought i was just mad and said that but now i know that was really stupid of me to do.but i shaped up after that i stopped focusing on guys and more on the family but still my mom's putting me down the other day she called me a bitch for the first time and i was scared. it's like i had an empty feeling inside you know? i don't think i'm a bad person over that one thing. i know it hurt her what i did but i didn't mean to. and for her to verbally abuse me i think is wrong it's been a year and she's still making comments. like the one she said when she took away my phone ,"oh i'm sorry your pimps aren't gonna have any business lately." honestly i don't think it's right.

i would really like your opinion and help please and thank you. (link)
i know what your going through.
the same thing happend to me.
but my mom didnt do that.
i think if you have a teacher you trust tell her/him.
and have her/him talk to your mother.
maybe that will help.
but what i did wrong was we were in a fight and i told her that it was a good thing she put me on the s**t pill.
and that started a whole big thing but she said she already knew.
but try doing what i said maybe it will help.
let me know how it goes.
good luck.


Well I'm in love with piercings...but my parents say I have to wait until I'm 16. Fair enough.
I'm 15 in January.
We'll, a lot of people I hang around with and talk to, are getting piercings and I am so jealous and feel left out.
I only have my lobes and one at the top of my ear.
How can i convince my parents to let me get at least one more piercing before I'm 16?

Thanks :)
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well it depends on what you want pierced.
you could always do what i did with my nose..
i went in my moms room and asked what she would do if i piered my nose and she said nothing theres nothing i can do just let me see it so i told her i didnt do it but then i went and did it.
but if its something you cant do on your own then im not so sure what to do.
just kiss either your moms or dads ass who ever let you do more things lol.
then let me know how it goes.
hope i helped


is there any ideas for hairstyles?? all i usually do is leave it down or put it in a ponytail..but i want more ideas..something classy yet cool..edgy but not to much..any ideas and links are appreciated..oh and btw i have strawberry blonde hair thats about 6-7 inches below my shoulders, i have side bangs and straight hair.


oh yeah another question..when i take a shower and my hair dries its always really frizzy, like not puffy frizzy, but whenever i put my fingers through it its
always in knots, even though i just brushed it, and when i stand by the sun or light theres always like my hair is standing on end with all the frizzies, ive tries straightening it, but that doesnt work..so any suggestions would be helpful
Thanx:) (link)
If your hair curls you could put it in a half pony tail and curl the ponytail part.
Thats what i do and alot of people tell me its cutee.
So you should try it.


I just had sex for the first time about 4 days ago. I didn't really hurt but ever since i have been bleading and have had stomach pains. Is this normal if not what could be wrong? (link)
Well thats what happend to me and a few of my friends.
Your fine.
Its probably just your period.


Ok so here's the deal. I recently started dating this guy named "Jason". I really like "Jason" and he is sweet and kind and funny, but i having some problems with it. "Jason" is a little bit bigger than most of the guys i date. I mean we have kissed and everything and he is a really good kisser but I can't picture me and him having sex. It that normal? Will it go away as we get futher along in the relationship?

Also another BIG problem i have is my friend "Mary". Well "Mary" and "Jason" used to go out. and she says she is still in love with him. But "Jason" said that they were only together for 3 days. Ok this part may confuse you so try to keep up! I'm bisexual and i'm engaged to a girl named "Sara". "Sara" is "Mary's" older sister. and i'm also dating "Jason". Before you say i'm cheating, i'm not. But "Jason" and "Sara" know other each other. But i really don't want to hurt "Mary" and then me and "Sara" get in a fight about it. So Basically my questions are the ones above and; Should i break up with "Jason" even though i really like him just so "Mary" won't get hurt. Or is she over reacting? I don't want to hurt anyone! but i really like him.

BTW "Jason" is 18;"Sara" is 17; i'm 16 1/2/f, and "Mary" is 15.

P.S. Please no lectures on being engaged at 16 because I don't want to hear it.

Please help me. Thanks alot. ~~HBA~~ (link)
Ok well i think that if you really care about your friend then you should break up with him.
Also if you engaged with your bestfriends sister I think thats enough for you friend to have to handle.
So if I was you id stay with your girlfriend and break up with your boyfriend.
You never know you might just be happier with just her.

I hope I helped let me knoww




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