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How to forgive and forget people that hurts you so much?
How to forgive and forget people that hurts you so much? I've tried turning back on people who hurt me, and it seemed to work a lil but I need more than that. Because it seems like I'm just ignoring my problems. I've tried faking my own happiness so people wont see that i'm hurt, but I don't wanna be plastic either. So what's one way you can just forgive and forget?
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The best thing to do is to forgive, but try not to forget. You need to sort out all the people in your life and decide if they are worth keeping there and if they will be true to you. Surround yourself with the people that really care about you. You don't have to be friends with the people that hurt you, but it's really important to forgive them, whether you tell them openly or just assure yourself on the inside. If you don't forgive them, you'll continue to have a grudge towards them, and it will continue to bother you for a long time.
Instead of spending your time worrying about those horrible things people did to you, focus on the things that make you happy. Try not to be alone too much and spend time with your family and friends. Take up a sport or hobby. You don't need to fake happiness. As long as you look for it, you'll find it.
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This is probably one of the hardest things to do. You have to always think ahead to the future & do what's best for you. If you think someone is worth being in your life, even if they did hurt you before, forgive them & try to move on. If they aren't worth it, don't waste your time. You need to go by your feelings & learn how to choose your friends wisely. Family will always be family, so it should be easier for you to forgive them. You can choose your friends. If someone keeps hurting you or making things difficult, you should forget them & move on. You don't need people in your life who are mean & unsupportive.
-hope that helped!♥
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