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am i giving the right signal?
so far we agree to give each other personal space and I would make a schedule for him when to talk and not. really he think i like him? i always remind him we are just freiends
and your a brother to me. he says i know of course we are friends and just give me some time i can proof it to you chemisty can change and you can change your mind someday. he also pushed me to nick name him silly boy cuz it fits for him and the other day he said so you calling me silly boy that mean im your silly boy. i said no your not mine but you are a silly boy so i call you that. i said you are your mom\'s silly boy and my silly boy brother. he said in a bit of firm tone no stop it no more brother thing and no more freinds now ok im your silly boy. he said that is gay and im not gay silly boy brother.
i paused and said you are scaring me your pushy
he said ok call me warren ( his name) again of course we\'re just friends. why is he pushing me to call him that does silly boy means more than friends to him? he also says i need a sense of humour when i talk and he thinks is funny when i call him silly boy is what he likes. he also says im too strict and too straight forward need like a sense of humour. it\'s something he says i learn it from my communcation skill class in a conversation throwing a sense of humour is important. so that is why im such a good communicator. we kind of debate on it a bit and i said that\'s the way im am like it or not well you maybe be a better communicator but you have better listening skills than you. as, he goes i know you may not like it feel im yelling at you but im not its for your good and im helping you.
so is he really helping me? why is he so concern about having a sense of humour?
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He seems like he doesnt want to be just a brother to you. He wants to be something different thats why he wants you to call him silly boy. it sets hit apart from any other guy. From what ive heard in previous questions he really is interested in you. Unless you want a relationship with him i think its best for you to get a boyfriend to show him your intrest is in someone else. And about the sense of humor thing sounds like he just wants to make you laugh. They do say if you can make a girl laugh you can make her do anything. Well but really he just wants to build his relationship with you in a boyfriend and girlfriend way.
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