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Asked out, no, rumors UGH
Theres this kid that i REALLY like and I cant stop thinking about him. I asked him out and he said no and I seriously CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM! We IM eachother (or DID) but he hasn't been on in forever and I really want to talk to him. I've sent him e-mail after e-mail with no reples. Earlier tonight, my older sister said that his cousin was on her basketball team and the girl asked how many sisters she (my sis, we'll call her sally)had and Sally's like 2, and pointed us out. And then the girls like oh ______ ______ (my name) and then Sally's like yeah her. and then the girls like, oh my couson Bob frank (not his real name) had a HUGE crush on her and im not sure if he still does" and if i ask him he'll reject it, I'm possitive, other rumors like this have been around and he denies it. I dont lknow what to do, i told him that i like him and he wont talk. I need help THANKS!
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It seems pretty clear that this guy is giving you a message - he's not replying to your emails, told you no when you asked him out, and has stopped IMing you. Whatever the reason might be, right now you might want to consider the fact that this relationship isn't going to work.
This isn't to say it might not happen in the future, but the things you do now might make it NOT work. This guy might like you and be embarassed, or he might not like you. Sending him email after email will not help with either problem, and will probably make things worse.
Why not back off and give him and yourself some time and space? Put your crush energies into other things - writing, painting, etc. Anything except directed at him. I'm not encouraging you to play hard to get, but I am suggesting that you take a realistic look at how things are shaping up - and make a decision based in your head, not your heart.
I wish you the best.
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