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getting over an ex
Me and my old boyfriend went through alot of tough situations. He had hit me before and was very controlling so I broke it off. I told him we could be just friends but now its to the point where I dont even want to talk to him. But everytime I see him, I cant get over him. I'm still in love with him but I know the relationship was hurting more than it helped. I can't even remember how to be single since I haven't been single for almost a year and a half. I always have the need to be in a relationship because I hate being alone. I'm not hanging out with him this weekend and I wanted to know what are some things to do to keep him off my mind/get over him. I'm 15/f. Thanks.
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i was in the exacccct same situation as you. the hitting, the controllingness..i went through the same thing. the best thing to do is to spend time with family and friends. i used to never be home with my brothers..and just playing video games with them kept me happy. a night out with friends i never really got to see made me happy too. go out..go shopping, get a haircut, hit the gym, chill with friends or family. etc
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First off, good job. Alot of people either can't get out of the relationship or they are too naive to let go. You have to accept the fact that your relationship wasn't going anywhere and keep telling yourself that you are way better off without him and pick out all the flaws he has to get over easier.Also, you need to keep yourself busy with other stuff. That goes for have a girls night out or go to the movies , even go out with another guy, that will probaly help. If you ever do think about him, discipline yourself and think of something else. Time is the key though, you need to be patient and keep shooting forward and never look back. Hope I helped. If you need futher advice or any other advice be sure and message me.
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