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upperclassmennn.
ok, im a freshman, and i have lots of upperclassmen in my classes, and ive actually made friends with a few of them. but my gym class, there all so mean. well. not all of them, just about two. we were playing this game and like her ball or whatever fell over by me, but i didnt even realize it, because i was looking for mine .and the whole time shes yelling, BALL. BALL BALL! BALL! hello you little bitch, get my ball. and i was like dude i didnt see it. i mean, if she would of said in the beginning, hey can you get my ball? i wouldve looked around for it, and gave it to her. but she didnt. so i didnt end up getting it.
so anyways, shes always been mean to me. i dont even know her name. i dont even know her. shes really ugly, and she wears the same outfit everyday, and shes just mean. what should i do about this? shes been mean to me like this for a long time. gym will be over for me this semester. but i was like about to cry today, and i dont know how much more of that i can take.
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Upper classmen being mean to the under classmen is just kind of a tradition. the upper classmen feel they have earned there spot in the school and the under classmen havent yet. you'll probably do the same thing when your a junior or senior lol. but it doesnt sound like this girl is doing it because of that. she just seems to be a bitch in general. she knows that shes getting to you by doing things like that, so when she does something mean to you, just ignore it. as hard as it may be, just dont pay any attention to her, dont even look at her. and after awhile, she'll realize shes not bothering you anymore and stop. thats how all bullies are.. if they know theyr getting to you, theyr going to keep doing it. if you dont show that its getting to you, they'll move on to someone else and leave you alone.
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i know its tough, but by crying you are giving her the ammunition/satisfaction she needs.
by you crying, she is feeding off of your emotions and being even meaner, she knows she is getting to you.
show that you don't give a damn.
and i hate to resort to this but if its THAT bad, talk to a teacher and tell your teacher to speak to the girl and keep you anonymous
hope i helped!
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Some think they need to traditionally be rude to underclassmen.
What should you do? Stand up for yourself and stop letting her affect you. Show her that you won't take her crap and you don't care what she thinks.
If it were me playing this ballgame, I would have said something like "Get your own damn ball. I'm not your caterer."
And why should you be near tears over what she thinks of you? Why should you care about it that much? She is a mean spirited bully who KNOWS she gets under your skin.
Why give her that satisfaction?
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