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The thing is I feel like I'm asking him too many questions, and he's always very shy around, which I don't know why b/c I'm a pretty outgoing sort of person. I hang out with anybody and everybody and I always find him sitting by himself.
I want to find out more about him and talk to him but I don't want to make it seem that I'm interested, that might ruin the chances of a great friendship..
And we have a lot of things in common.. but I can't get to him, he's very shy when it comes to talk with me.
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What kind of body language does he use around you? Pay attention to this, it could say a lot about how he feels about you. If he's just quiet with not much expression on his face, then he's probably just a shy person in general. But if he looks away from you and smiles at the same time, there's a good chance he might be interested in you. Also, some people just take extra long to feel comfortable enough to open up around other people, so it might be that he just needs time. You could always invite him to do things with you and your other friends, that way there'd be no chance that he'd see it as you trying to hit on him or anything, he'd just see that you're trying to be a friend. Pick activities that maybe don't require you to have to just sit there face to face with him & be forced to try to make conversation. Movies, go-carting, mini golf, bowling, anything like that can be fun as a group, but isn't in too intimate of a setting so he should feel more comfortable.
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