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Friend Dating Your Sibling
Hey Jenna, I was hoping i could get some advice ;) . Ok, I am 15, female, and from Canada. I have this one friend and she is good and all. Well, she was good and all. We used to be really good friends until one day she decided to start dating my brother. He's turning 17 in December and she is 16 right now. Anyhow, things were going pretty good and then all of a sudden this relationship changes her whole attitude towards me. She starts little fights for no reason, argues, and blames me for all the things that could possibly 'wreck' thier relationship. I'm not even trying to wreck the 'relationship' that they have going on, she just 'thinks' i am. Sure most people would just say 'leave it and move on' because there is more people out there, and i do have other friends. It's just that she won't stop treating me badly, and my brother is treating me badly and is acting like he has the prize now cause she hardly ever speaks to me or pays attention to anything i say. The only time she talks to me is if it has something to do with my brother or she wants help on her work. Overall, she isn't much of a friend anymore... and i hope that things can go back to the way they were. With me and her as best friends as it once was. Anything you have to say will help and is much appreciated, thanks :)
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Ahh, that must be pretty hard =/
I hate it when people change like that!!
Well I mean, the most you could do is talk to her about it and tell her EXACTLY how you feel but don't like have a bad attitude just to start another fight, just tell her you really miss the person that you used to be able to hang out with and have a lot of fun with and make her feel guilty and stuff =P
And if that doesn't work, I guess you will just have to let it be. My friend changed too, not over the same reason as you, but I tried talking to her about it...she acted like she would change, but she never did and I feel a lot better off not being her friend because it saved me a lot of stress. So just think about that :D. I know it is really really hard though. But I think the key is just to sit her down and talk about it =]
Good luck!
You can always come and ask me if you have anymore problems :D
--Jenna
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