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touching.
16/f.
I absolutely hate when people touch me. Like, just hugging...I get all weird about it. I hate when my own dad touches me...like slaps my butt playfully. I start getting really scared like he's going to rape me or something. (I don't know why) I'm really insecure about it...and I'm worried that I may never get a boyfriend because of it. When guys put their hands around me...I get FREAKED out...I get all jumpy and start squealing if they poke me or something. I just hate it......I get a wrong feeling from me.
What can I do to change this and is this normal?
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I am JUST like you. I hate being touched, I don't even know why. It just freaks me out and I don't like it. I'm pretty sure it's normal to feel this way, though.
If you want to change this, I'd think the best way is to get over your fear (obviously).
Like, start hugging people more and letting people hug you, etc. I started letting people hug me, and I'm a little bit better than I used to be. Though, I didn't really find myself bothered by it and actually try to change. That's just the type of person you are, and it's ok =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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I'm not a touchy-feely person either. I'm a girl who likes her space.
Keep in mind that you will find a guy you are comfortable with. It will just take you a little longer to find that guy than other girls.
I don't know how you can change it since it is an issue in your head. I suppose therapy? Either that or get used to the idea of taking relationships at a slow pace.
ygs-29/f
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