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Promise ring
I really want to get a promis purity ring
its where i wont have sex till im married but..
i feel like i wont go through with it!
What happens if the promise is broken?
How can I make sure i wont have sex till marriage?
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The only way to make sure you won't.. is to just not do it. and if you ever find yourself in that position - stop and think. Remember your beliefs. Tell your boyfriend at the time what you are trying to achieve - I'm sure he will respect your decision (if he is the right one) and help you out along the way.
Remember; you are abstaining from sex for your own personal choice.
If the promise is broken, the only thing that will happen is you will have to deal with the fact you broke your own promise. You will never get your virginity back.
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i think it's great that your getting a promise ring you should!! my mom got me a promise ring when i turned 15 but i broke it because i thought i had the right guy and i didnt plan it and i had no intintion of EVER having sex well untill marriage. I thought i was strong enough to do it but i felt like she pushed it on me but thats no excuse...the first guy that sweet talks me..and i fell for it but i really thought we was gonna be together but now hes with his ex 'they're in love' bs. but the point is i wasnt strong enough for it and i fell into the trap guys set up....I have so much respect for you for making this choice =] im really glad!!
I pray that you don't make the same mistake i did
cause now i wish i could have kept that promise i wish i could take it back because in the end it wasnt worth it
good luck =]
<3 brianna(15 yrs)
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The only way you can 'make sure' is by not.
Very few people make a promise with the intention of breaking it. To be honest with you, I think the very fact that you are thinking so realistically about this, means you are probably ready and able to keep this promise, if you want too.
It's the people who never think about the risks and the temptations who end up breaking thier word. The people who know it will be hard, are ready and willing to work hard at it, are the one who can do it.
If you want to save yourself for married, get the ring and do the work. I believe in you. You just need to believe in yourself and your own decision.
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