Question Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 11:34 pm
I have been with this kid for a longlonglong time, and lately.. weve been taking alotta breaks. he makes me so angry. were in love. i know that for sure, no matter what anyone says.. we are. even though we are young. even my mother says it, so its no joke. we were ina serious relationship until some girl came along & took my place. he finally just dumped her for good, and started dating me again obviously. just earlier he asked for another break after we just did some stuff last night. but its not like hes using me.. don't get the wrong idea. i think the break is so he can just talk to some other girls.. but when guys called me to hangout today he was bitching about it. another guy asked me to chill to, but of course.. i hafta be in love with a guy that i wish i never met.. and didnt go with the other kid. i rly wanna be done & move on, but its MUCHMUCHMUCH easier said then done. even though were gon get back together, itll jus happen again & im so mad. i can't be done, but i can't get screwed over again. help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Saturday November 24 2007, 4:40 pm: I honestly think that breaks don't work or fix anything. It's just a lame excuse. If he is going to keep taking breaks, it's not worth it. It only hurts you more and he knows that you'll always come back to him. It's not fair that he gets mad at your for talking and hanging out with other guys. You're allowed to have guy friends and he's just jealous that he might lose you for good. I think that if you're really seriously about this, end this for good. Try talking to him about it if you already haven't. Let him know that you're willing to try and make your relationship work if he is and this should be the last time. You shouldn't give him any more chances because in the long run, you will keep getting hurt. I understand that it's hard to end things with he one you love but if he really loved you as much as he says he does, why does he keep doing the same thing over and over? Just think about what you think will be the best thing for you and what would make you happy. Put yourself before him for once. I can't tell you on what to do, but hopefully you make the right decision. Good luck girl. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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