my friend, let's say D, told me about this guy, C, at her bff's, B, school, and B believes with a passion that C is a great match for me, because he reminds her of me [i'm friends with B too but we're at diff schools]. i don't even know if that's a good thing, but apparently B and C are friends, so she knows him "well enough". i've only had one serious relationship in the past, so i feel inexperienced at this whole idea. D was asking if i was willing to "give it a shot" because B asked the guy and he already agreed. i said okay eventually, so D will tell B to give C my sn. but i'm not sure... sometimes people can be completely different online than they are in real life. and does it make me seem desperate for a guy if i said yes? because i'm not, actually, and i'm hoping that this isn't D and B's idea of a weird joke to play on me. i love them, but they can be strange like that sometimes.
Well you arent desperate, so what if you have only had one past serious relationship...if you feel inexperienced then now would be a great time to get experienced!!! i think that you are making so many assumptions because you are afraid of what could happen with C...r u??? this might seem like a weird thing to do, but im promise if your ever stuck and you do this it could work...it works for me everytime....
Okay i want you to find your pulse...just do it...found it?? good! now block out everything...rid your mind of any nonsense...just feel your heart beating...get rid of fears, get rid of worries, just feel your pulse....ready??
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what did your heart say??? did it tell you that this is what you really want?? or did it tell you that your wasting your time?? if i was you i would say go for it!! what have you got to lose??
xoxo
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