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ahh help!
ok i need help asap! this guy that i really really really like well we've been talking for like forever now about doing stuff. and i already promised him i would. like promised for sure. but now i'm getting really nervous about it.. like i'm scared to death, but i really want to do stuff, stuff as in i'm going to give him a blow job and he's going to finger me. i've never done any of this so please help me! any tips on what to do?, how to make it not awkward?, and how to not be so nervous? thanks a ton!
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alright, so this is just my opinion, but i would not do this at all. trust me, im 18 so ive had my share of situations and seeing my friends go through things like this. you shouldnt do sexual activities liek that if you arent going out..if you are comfortable about it and wont get emotions involved, then i guess there is no stopping you. but just stop to think about this for a second..hes a guy so hes horny, you might do this with him and he wont talk to you again, or he will move on to the next girl. i dont want to see you get hurt. if you are really going to go through with it, i can try and give you advice but i cant get graphic on here so you can IM me if you want on AIM. My sn is eatapasty
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Ah, in my point of view: To be 110% honest with you, I say DON'T do it.
If you're NOT comfortable with this, don't even bother.
Even if you've promised this guy you would.
Might as well tell him what's up.
I'm just saying you shouldn't be doing something that you're not ready or comfortable with or you're going to regret doing it later.
And don't let this guy take advantage of you. AT ALL.
-madlyxinxlove
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Honestly, if I was in your position...I wouldn't do anything until after ya'll are dating. Because most likely, the guy is just gonna be like "Ohhh Yeah, She Did This To Me...And I Did This To Her" and brag to his friends, and just run off with it. And for you being nervous, I've been thinking about it (hopefully not doing that in the near future... maybe in a couple of months or so w/ my boyfriend) and I'm scared to death too.. not sure if I'm ready or not... lol. :)
So if you do, do stuff with this guy... give me some tips. :)
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You are at a difficult stage of life and it's normal to be nervous about such things. I do say to step back a moment though. You do need to decide if you are nervous just because you don't know what to do or if you aren't sure if you are ready. If you aren't ready then wait. Only you will be able to know that though.
Let's say you have decided you are ready. If you google "how to give a blowjob" there would be numerous sites devoted to answer that. Check out a few and take in what you can. The thing is, it's your first time. It will be new and awkward. That won't always be the case. You don't have to be perfect. To a large extent, when it comes to this, it's the thought that counts.
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