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What do i do?I don't know what to do anymore.
O.k, i have been in love with this guy since last summer already.We went out for like 4 months then we broke up but i dont know why.He didnt even say it's over he just stoped calling.So i would call him all the time and sometimes we would hang out but we would never bring up why we had broken up.So i would go to all the good parties but when i was having fun he would always end up where i was.We would talk and sometimes kiss and stuff.Now that i see him everyday in school i can't stop thinking about him.I can be having fun and he'll just pop up in my mind and i'll start to cry.I have even tried moving on and loving somebody else but it didn't seem to work because i would still think of him. Please tell me what to do i want to get over him because all he does is hurt me.
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First of all, he's a JERK because he just stopped calling you and never even having the guts to say "I don't think this is gonna work out."
I'm not just going to tell you to get over him, because believe me, I know that isn't easy at all. But you need to realize that he's using you as some sort of rebound, and that's probably what's hurting you the most. I know this is kind of cliched, but remember what you deserve. Someone who is going to treat you right. The guy that I've had a similar situation with-yeah, he changed his number. And then he MOVED. And I still have to see him now and then.
So, if you can handle it, talk to him. Stay friends. Even tell him straight up: "Hey, I don't appreciate you not telling me anything when we were basically over. If you want, we can stay friends. But if you just want to be friends with benefits, I'm not sure I can take that."
(Unless of course you do want to be friends w/ benefits, then go for it.)
But I say just give it some time, see all your girlfriends, try not to think about him; distract yourself. You don't need someone who is going to continually keep hurting you & break you down. You're better than that, and you deserve better.
Good Luck, and I hope I helped at least a little.
-kitty sheldon♥
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