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am i just a bitch?
f/16
i have no idea what to do. there has always been this boy who i have a history with. i've never liked anyone as much as i like him and its been like this for about a year and a half? well after hooking up [just kissing in and out of school] i told him that i liked him a lot and he really never said anything. so i gave up and moved on.
at my 16th birthday i slow danced with this guy i've always thought was really cute, and i didn't know anything about him so a mutual friend kind of hooked us up. we talked in and out of school and then we became bf and gf. we've been together for like 8 days and i'm not happy. i mean hes so sweet, my mom ADORES him, hes smart, and hes religious and kind but i don't knmow if i like him anymore. i get mad when he walks me to and from practically EVERY class and i have to make conversation. i roll my eyes when i see him. thats how bad/mean i am getting.
i like the other guy. i know i do and always have and i just want to be free to do what i want. i don't know if i should break up with him, cause i would literally crush him. i'm his first kiss & gf and all my friends would be upset because hes a sweet guy and thats what i need.
people say i should stick it out, but theres vaca break soon and only mon. and tues. there's school. i could be with the other guy at his house for the remainder of that week because thats where i want to be.
idk should i break up with him?
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Trust me you aren't a bitch. I've been in his shoes, and believe me, the sooner you let him know that you aren't into him, the better. I am still friends with alot of girls that tried to date me, but just wasn't into me after awhile. If he truely cares for you, he will appreciate your honesty, and realize that if you aren't happy, then it's for the best. It may take him some time to get over the initial shock and/or pain from the break up, but I have a feeling he'll be ok after a while
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you're deff. not a bitch. people feel like that all the time. it's cool. i think you should because what happens if it gets really serious? you'll be totally miserable and he'll be happier than ever then it would be harder to break up with him. you need to break up with him now. if you want someone else it's not fair to him or yourself. plus maybe the nice guy just isnt your type.
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You can not lead your life ALWAYS trying to please other people. Sometimes your have to put yourself first, would the guy your with really be happy if he knew how unhappy you are?
He will get over it, you've gota take some risks and grab what makes you happy otherwise life will slip through your finger tips.
(that sounds a little too dramatic reading it back but the principles of it stand lol, you can't put yourself through misery just too please someone else)
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