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i dnt know if i should
ok well i am dating this guy and he wanted to kiss me but i told him no because i didnt know how but i didnt tell him that i didnt know how because i didnt want to look stupid ok but then i thought if i dont kiss him then i well never learn but i am afraid that he wont like the way i kiss and break up with me plz sme one tell me what i am suposed to do!!!
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Tell him the truth. Let him know you are not experienced in this area. There's nothing to be ashamed about because we all have to learn by trial and error. This guy probably feels like shit thinking you don't like him or want to kiss him. Talk to him about it privately.
You will find he will understand and will be more than willing to practice it with you. The minute he knows you weren't ready and were scared is when things will get better. He's got a bad impression of you right now because he thinks you brushed him off. You need to fix that.
As far as technique the person below is on the money with letting him guide you and doing what he does.
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If you have feelings for him, then kiss him. Start out with just simple pecks at first, like you would do kissing your mom, but on the lips. When you feel comfortable doing that, just pause on his lips a little. If he starts opening his mouth, open yours. Basicly repeat what he does, and you should be fine.
Don't worry too much about it! You'll survive.
~Maria, 16
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