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Apprehensive About College Roomates! Okay, I need advice and I didn't know who else to ask. I'm feeling incredible apprehensive about living situations next year when I move to college. I'm supposed to be living with my two best friends. It's not that I don't trust them, it's just that I am very worried about differring priorities. I have one friend who is REALLY into partying, and who JUST GOT ENGAGED. The other, like me is still a partier, but feels that getting the education you're paying SOO MUCH for is more important. Most of all, I'm worried about my partying friend paying her rent, or not leaving in the middle of the year to live with her fiance. I'm wanting to address the issue, but I don't exactly know how to bring it up... Any advice would be REALLY appreciated!
Sincerely,
An Apprehensive Roomate
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Invite them over to your house for dinner. During dinner just bring up the topic of whats going to happen, ask if their excited and such, and just bring up kindly if your friend is thinking of moving in with her fiance. Your partying friend most likely realizes that she wont be able to party so much, due to classes/paying for rent/probably getting a job. Say you read an article in a magazine that this girl had troubles with her roomates....or whatever, and then be like, thats not going to be us right! Just, talk about it simply to them. Hope i helped! Good lUck!
-Brina ]
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