Basically, when i get my period ihate my life because i can't use tampons. I've tried..about 30 times. I know the directions..i know how to do it. The thing is..it doesn't fit. I've tried the smallest size and that still doesn't work. Its embarresing cause i'm 16 years old and i can't use one! Also like, i've been in a relationship for a while so i know that the time will come to like do fingering and stuff...and like..he wont be able to! ahh haha help? thanks a ton!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? GalPalNessa answered Tuesday November 13 2007, 11:18 pm: First of all, yeah first tim etrying to do it, no matter what number of first time it is, it is pretty bad! haha!
It took me a couple of tries to first get it in... and even then it felt a little weird...
Anyway, have you tried using even some lube with it? You're already starting with the smallest one, which is great! def wanna start with that. Best position I found as well was squading... and most important, don't think about it much and just breathe.. breathe nice and deep! haha =) If possible, like i mentioned before, try to see if you can get some lube so you can put specially around the tip of the tampon and go in a little easier... also, try tampax pearl. I found those to be the smallest out there. And they're not that bad, specially for first timers =) The plastic applicator enables a nice easy smooth entrance... and like I said their small ones are definitely the smallest I've found out there!
...Also, regarding the fingering, trust me its definitely different to trying to put in tampon! haha1 to start off if and when he does this, you'll be pretty turned on and therefore pretty wet. Make sure to tell him or that he does it with only one finger. When you're ready maybe two and whatnot haha!
But also, all in all that could actually help you in putting in the tampon, Since it'll open you up a tiny bit and reasure you that its something that you can do. Which actually brings me to, maybe you can do it as well. You know? Try doing it yourself too if you feel comfortable. It'll help in both situations =)
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